Carmen (carmsa)

I have been in this forum for over 4 years and the majority of clairvoyants, empaths etc lead me to believe that I would end up together with a poi. That person has not bothered to contact me since we had an argument in January because he crossed a very big boundary of mine. With respect I am trying to understand how so many advisers got it so wrong.

The Secret Psychic (intuitivejessicalee)

Hi Carmen,

I can understand your frustration in this and I have to tell you there’s many variables that could contribute to the WHY so many established psychics could get this one thing wrong.

One of the reasons that came to my mind first was that it could be your energy- or to be more specific your desires for certain outcomes can be too overpowering for some readers to cut through.

This isn’t a slam against you or to say ‘it’s all your own fault’ at all.

I personally have only found 1 psychic in the past 20 years who could accurately read my energy- much less make accurate predictions that came to pass.

I contribute my case as – strong psychic shielding.

If you aren’t one to practice psychic self-defenses like I do, then the possibility is still around your energy and it could be projecting such a strong vision and vibe of what you wanted to happen (assuming they told you what you wanted to hear) that it was all, all of these readers could see.

Another possibility is that you may not have allowed your readers enough time to see the fullest picture.

Many times insights don’t jump straight to the final outcome in 3 minutes or less, or even 5 minutes. Especially when there’s many layers to uncover before we can get to the deepest and truest core.

I’m not sure exactly what your experiences were, what was predicted or how much time was allowed for the predictions to be reached from the ethers and delivered to you.

Still, I hope this helps give you some behind the scenes insights into some of the possibilities that can cause so many to see the same- wrong- outcome.

Best wishes Carmen and congratulations on holding up your boundaries! Especially NOW at this time in our cosmic history- PERFECT TIMING!

xoxox Jessica Lee The Secret Psychic

Destiny (ukpychic)

You mentioned he crossed a major boundary in January, and moments like that often shift the energy significantly because self-worth begins outweighing attachment.

You also made a choice at that point to draw a line for yourself, which is completely your right. Free will can and does change the direction of outcomes, sometimes very suddenly.

I don’t believe any reader intentionally misled you. It may simply be that the connection itself was genuinely strong and as you stated, there was a big boundary he crossed.

Mondez Durden (mondezdurden)

First, I am truly sorry for your experience.

I also want to acknowledge that I do not have enough background from four years of readings, conversations, and interactions to speak with any real authority about your specific situation. None of us reading your post has access to everything that happened, so I can only offer some thoughts based on patterns I have observed over the years.

In my view, insight is rarely a one-way process. A reading is a collaboration between two people trying to understand a situation with limited information. Readers do not receive a complete picture. We receive impressions, notice patterns, and then attempt to interpret them. Our experiences, beliefs, biases, and assumptions influence that interpretation.

Clients also come into readings carrying hopes, fears, expectations, and desires. That is completely normal. We all do it.

What I have seen happen at times is that both the reader and the client can become attached to a particular outcome. Once that happens, information that supports that outcome tends to receive more attention than information that challenges it.

That does not mean anyone is intentionally misleading anyone. It means both people are human.

One of the responsibilities of a reader is to keep all possibilities on the table, including possibilities that neither the reader nor the client wants to hear. If a reading only reinforces hope while dismissing contradictory evidence, it becomes less useful over time.

The reason I stress this is that reality matters. A person’s actions matter. Their choices matter. Their willingness to communicate, respect boundaries, and participate in a relationship matters.

Behavior is a form of communication, just as intuition is a form of instant insight.

If someone consistently moves toward you, that is information.

If someone consistently moves away from you, that is also information.

As readers, we should never become so attached to an interpretation that we stop paying attention to what reality is showing us.

With respect to your question, I do not know whether the readers were wrong, whether important information got overlooked, whether circumstances changed, or whether other factors were involved. What I can say is that when many people focus on a particular outcome for a long time, it becomes easier for everyone involved to filter information through that expectation unintentionally. Over time, we can become less sensitive to information that points in another direction.

For me, the lesson is not that sessions are useless or that intuition has no value. The lesson is that insight works best when it is grounded in observation and reason, and when a willingness to re-evaluate what is actually happening continually balances it.

Intuition is a tool for gaining insight, but it should not be mistaken for complete certainty.

No outside voice should become more important than your own lived experience. When someone’s actions repeatedly show you who they are and where they stand, that information deserves a place at the table alongside intuition, hope, and outside guidance, regardless of what any reader may have sensed.

Gemini Moon Readings ✧ (gemini_moon)

I’m sorry for your experience….you mention so many advisors got it wrong, my question or first thought would be: why are you seeking so many advisors?

that is not a healthy practice IMHO, to seek many advisors, and it can happen because of anxiety, or trying to get “reassurance” about a prediction.

Expectations must be in check, whether it’s about readings, relationships, or whatever it is….a reading is not infallible, and even if many people say the same thing, it doesn’t mean it holds more weight when it comes to a prediction.

As for why so many, or why anyone got it wrong: Sometimes people will be wrong. People make mistakes, or misinterpret things. That is unavoidable.

LadybugTarot (ladybugtarot)

This is my take. You’ve been consulting advisors for the last 4 years. Over time, possibilities shift. Each reading is a snapshot of the current energies and the possibilities they may lead to. The choices you and your POI made in January led to different possibilities. You changed the trajectory by changing the current energy.