Kristy Litch (giftedbutlost)

I am wondering if I’m ever gonna be happy in love because I’m starting to wonder if I was here to help others and make them happy but not be myself. I have literally been to hell and back the last year and a half and can’t take much more.

Alana (psychicalana)

Hi Kristy,

A lot of people feel this way, so you are not alone. Although your nature is to give you have to receive back to have balance in your life. Your purpose is not for others it’s for you it’s just about finding yourself not getting lost in others. I am sorry to hear all that you have been through, and I am sure that the right love will find you at the right time but that comes with putting yourself first.

Alana

Amanda martin (mysticamanda)

You are not destined to be alone or to only uplift others. You’re in what’s called a “shadow phase,” where the lessons are harsh but the outcome is transformation. I can see clearly: your heart is not meant to remain where it is right now. There is love coming, but not until this chapter fully closes and you reclaim yourself.

LoveSizeMedium (lovesizemedium)

I can help xoxo

Lauren Divine (lauren_divine)

The truth is we have our own free will and control of our destiny. It’s a matter of finding balance, breaking through barriers and giving the same love and attentiveness to ourselves as we do others which for many reasons can be challenging especially to those with high empathy and compassion. Remember that you are a person too and deserve good things and are allowed to give the same love to yourself as you graciously extend to others, hon. May you have a blessed holiday season xxxxx

Gemini Moon Readings (gemini_moon)

Hi Kristy. Energy wise, I’d expect a lot of repeating of cycles that are stressful. In other words, don’t be surprised if there’s more hell and back type of energy. So what to do, I would say to avoid this you need to take control of your life and stop doing the same things over and over & over again. Try focusing on yourself, and understanding the way you function in relationships, do love language testing, attachment style testing, and find out who you are. Work on not allowing others to take advantage of you, if that is an issue as well. People will keep doing things, if you let them, if that makes sense. I hope this helps, best of luck to you and Merry Christmas.

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Antara Vachetta (antaratarocchi)

You will eventually find happiness and harmony in your life, you have been through a lot in this incarnation so it’s certainly hard to release the baggage and burden of the past. I sense that you need to focus on doing some work with energy clearing, or breath work, or practices that help to heal on a cellular level.

Empath Heather (intuitiveheather)

I’m really glad you shared this, because you’re not alone in feeling this way. So many people reach a point especially after a painful stretch, where they start to wonder this. That feeling doesn’t mean it’s true. It usually means you’re tired, hurt, and longing for relief. And that makes complete human sense.

When we’ve “been to hell and back,” it’s very easy to start looking outward and measuring our lives against what we think others have. That comparison can quietly turn into the belief that others are more deserving of love, or that something is missing or broken inside us. Most of the time, that voice isn’t truth speaking it’s pain speaking.

Hard relationships and heavy seasons often don’t come because we’re unlovable, but because they’re showing us where we’ve been giving too much, accepting too little, or forgetting our own worth. Wanting love, companionship, and happiness is baseline human existence. You were not put here only to make others happy. Your heart matters too, and this chapter does not decide the rest of your story. Take some real time to just allow your soul and heart to rest… you will find that in hindsight, this was a major cycle change for you. A moment in time that helped push you closer to the love you are wanting.

All the best to you!