Alana's Readings & Reiki (psychicalana)

Abusive and dependent love often disguises itself as passion, loyalty, or devotion, making it difficult to recognize in the moment. It thrives on imbalance one person controls, manipulates, or diminishes while the other feels responsible for fixing, pleasing, or holding the relationship together. Over time, this dynamic can erode self-worth, blur boundaries, and create a cycle where fear of loss outweighs emotional safety. What feels like love becomes survival, and the relationship begins to revolve around tension, apology, and hope for change rather than mutual respect. Healing begins when we understand that love is not meant to hurt, isolate, or consume our identity. Healthy love allows independence, growth, and emotional security, while dependent love feeds on anxiety and attachment to potential rather than reality. Recognizing these patterns is not about blame it is about reclaiming personal power and choosing connection that supports, rather than diminishes, the self. True love does not require self-abandonment; it invites wholeness.

My love readings are designed to bring clarity, truth, and emotional grounding to those navigating confusing, painful, or deeply attached relationships. I help uncover unhealthy patterns such as emotional dependency, trauma bonding, or abusive dynamics while also offering insight into soul connections, free will, and the path forward. Rather than encouraging attachment or false hope, my services focus on empowerment helping clients understand their situation clearly, reconnect with their self-worth, and make decisions rooted in strength, healing, and long-term emotional well-being.

Let’s discover together the truth of your situation, the lessons behind it, and the path that leads you back to your power.