Zella Tarot (zellaintuitivetarot)

Common reasons for ghosting include.

Your ghost has an avoidant attachment style. They got overwhelmed because they felt a strong connection to you, so they pulled away when things got real.

There is another person involved. Your ghost met someone new or went back to their ex.

Your ghost is a narcissist who is trying to manipulate and control you to assert their power in the relationship.

Your ghost is truly busy or has an emergency.

Your ghost wasn’t invested in you, so they didn’t think they needed to explain why they were ending communication.

Your ghost told you they wanted to end things, but you weren’t accepting it. They didn’t know any other way to get the point across than to cut all contact.

Your ghost is trying to avoid physical or emotional harm, such as trying to get out of an abusive relationship or avoid a violent confrontation.

A life coach can tell you there are only a few reasons why people ghost. An intuitive tarot reader, like me, can tell you which reason applies to your particular situation and see how the future will play out.

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Blessings

Zella

Gemini Moon Readings (gemini_moon)

Ghosting also can occur when the person feels like things are in danger of going somewhere, so they vamoose to prevent progress.

Sad, but true…

Zella Tarot (zellaintuitivetarot)

Hi Gemini, Yes, that is the first point I mentioned. It is sad. It’s a painful dynamic. A person with an avoidant attachment style wants to be close but feels danger when they deeply connect with another.

This can come from past traumatic relationships or even childhood. It can make the other person feel they did something wrong when they did everything right.

Sending love to you and all who identify with my post.

Zella

Gemini Moon Readings (gemini_moon)

Hi Zella ~~ I was speaking of something that is different than your first point. It is when they don’t want things to progress, but want to keep you around to use you, so they ghost you with plans to see if you’re up for a hook up later on. In other words, they do not do this because they feel a strong connection and get overwhelmed. They do it because they can see the other party is getting attached, and want to stop expectations. Hope this helps! :)

Zella Tarot (zellaintuitivetarot)

Hi Gemini,

Yes! That’s a good point!

Blessings

Zella